❤️ LOVE IS YOUR BIRTH RIGHT❤️
(A blog everyone should read)…
I believe we are born for many reasons.
One of them is to learn the lesson about love.
To give love.
To receive love.
And to understand that we ARE love.
Yet so many hold back on love.
So many are missing the experience and true essence of what love really is.
“I won’t give all of me in case he/she is not the one”
“I won’t give all of me in case I get hurt”
“I won’t give all of me in case it won’t be returned to me and I look like a fool”
Ringing some familiar internal door bells?
Let’s pause for a moment.
At what point did you decide that it wasn’t safe to LOVE?
Who taught you that?
I mean, is that belief REALLY serving you?
A belief that is holding you back from the most beautiful thing in this entire universe!
Or maybe you just decided that you’re not worthy?
So you walk around with a closed heart?
You live your life in defence mode.
When there’s any sign of love in your life you immediately raise your shield.
You’re absolutely terrified.
LOVE DOES NOT KNOW FEAR.
Love is what we are born with.
Fear is what we have learnt along the way.
And how will you ever know if he/she is the one if you don’t go all in?
A mystery that never got revealed because you decided it wasn’t safe to love.
A mystery that never got revealed because you held yourself back from love.
As I now move into the most important part of this blog, I am also about to share with you the biggest lesson I have learnt about love & relationships.
❤️ EVERY PERSON YOU CHOOSE TO DATE – IS THE ONE.
❤️ EVERY RELATIONSHIP YOU EXPERIENCE IN THIS LIFETIME – IS THE ONE.
❤️ EVERY MAN/WOMAN YOU CHOOSE TO SHARE SPECIAL MOMENTS WITH – IS THE ONE.
Your “one” does not exist in the future.
Your “one” exists in this moment.
So many people, especially women, walk around with a mindset of
“Until the day I meet the one”
This makes me sigh with sadness.
The only moment you will ever have is the one that you are experiencing right now.
Right here, right now.
Therefore every person you have so far dated has been your “one” in the moment.
It was exactly what your soul needed at the time.
It brought you smiles, pleasure & good times.
It brought you amazing moments of human connection & affection.
However, it also brought you lessons.
It brought you so much wisdom.
But the moment continues to evolve.
So do us humans.
So does our life path.
So does our consciousness.
So does our energy & vibration.
It saddens me how so many people get caught up in finding their “one” in the future.
So many are missing the beauty and blessings of this moment and the person who is standing in front of them.
Your “one” always comes to you with what your soul needs most in the moment.
I also hear people fall in to the trap of “failure” if their marriage did not work out.
It’s generally one of the following two with deep embarrassment attached to it:
“My marriage failed”
“He/She wasn’t the one”
Let’s pause again.
I feel a few stops are needed during this blog.
Let your minds eye soak this in.
YOU DID NOT FAIL.
HE/SHE WAS THE ONE FOR THAT MOMENT IN TIME.
Stop looking at all the negatives and why it didn’t work out.
Start seeing the beauty of what it brought into your life.
Do not ever lose sight of gratitude.
Where and who you are today is a result and contribution of every “the one” you have shared special moments with.
But how you choose to respond to your life events is UP TO YOU.
Do you respond with gratitude & wisdom?
Or do you respond with blame & victim?
You can’t choose both gorgeous.
But you can certainly shift from victim to wisdom and pain to power.
It’s time to understand that every person you date is “the one”, in that moment.
Whether that moment lasts for 3 months, 3 years or a lifetime… is irrelevant.
I LOVE YOU.
Because I don’t hold back.
AND NEITHER SHOULD YOU.
Go all in gorgeous!!!
Acknowledge THE ONE standing right in front of you!
Turn Your Pain Into Power & wounds into wisdom.
And share this with someone who needs to read this x
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