Who you choose to date is a complete reflection of how you feel about yourself.

Oh how I used to BLAME, BLAME, BLAME!

I blamed them for treating me poorly.
I blamed them for disrespecting me.
I blamed them for being arse holes.
I blamed them for acting unfair.
I blamed them for being bad humans.

LOL.

Had I known back then what I know now…
Maybe I wouldn’t have wasted so much time in wrong relationships?

Who you choose to date is a complete reflection of your own self-worth & self-perception. How you treat yourself is how you invite the rest of the world to treat you.

You know what?

I FREAKING LOVE FAILURE!

Because the more you fail the more you learn.

I’m grateful for those toxic relationships.
I’m grateful for that disrespect.
I’m grateful for the name calling.
I’m grateful for the abuse.

Who did I have to blame?
MYSELF.

I chose to be in those relationships.
I chose to stay abuse after abuse.
I chose to let myself be disrespected.
I allowed myself to be treated that way.
I allowed myself to be walked over.

LIFE DOESN’T HAPPEN TO YOU…

LIFE HAPPENS FOR YOU.
STOP blaming and START taking responsibility.
STOP trying to change your partner and START changing yourself.
STOP asking “why me” and START asking “what can I learn?”
CLAIM YOUR FREAKING POWER RIGHT NOW.
Or don’t. You can always stay there too.
But who’s going to save you?
TAKE A LOOK IN THE MIRROR.
That person is YOU.

Linda x