WHAT IF… | Linda Doktar

You found the courage to face your fears?
You found the ability to leave your heavy past behind?
You had the confidence to start that new business?
You you finally started saying yes to yourself and your desires?
You experienced increased self-worth and also started loving yourself more?

WHAT IF YOU STARTED DOING MORE OF WHAT YOU WANTED TO DO, INSTEAD OF WHAT YOU THINK “YOU SHOULD” BE DOING?

In today’s world we are so used to conforming.
We are used to playing it safe and only seeking “security”.
The norm is to “rise to the middle” and do what everyone else is doing.

But please tell me –

Does this really make you happy?

Take a moment to be honest with yourself…

ARE YOU TRULY HAPPY?

Lately I have been challenging people’s beliefs, including my own.

I continue to ask –

“Why do you believe that?”
“When did you start believing that?”
“What was the reason you started to believe that?”

Did you know that our entire belief system is a result of external influences. We develop new beliefs by inheriting them from others, and also by going through certain life experiences of our own.

We simply DECIDE to believe in an instant.

Most of our beliefs are not even our own.
We simply decide to take them onboard.

BUT ARE YOUR BELIEFS TRULY SERVING YOU?

Have you ever really put your internal & invisible part of yourself under a microscope and taken a close look?

Just like when you stand in front of the mirror and point out every single little detail that you may want to improve. Because you feel that your physical appearance does not positively serve you, so you want change? And you CHOOSE to change. Because you want to feel good in your own body.

What about the invisible parts of you?
What about your internal belief system?
What about your mindset and thought process?
What about the relationship you have with yourself?
What about the way you FEEL and experience life?

In todays world we have been taught to ask all the wrong ‘what if’s’.

“What if I fail?”…
“What if people will judge me?…
“What if people will laugh at me?”…

WHAT IF YOU STARTED ASKING YOURSELF DIFFERENT ‘WHAT IFS’?

The kinds of questions that would empower you into action, and by following them – you could actually have everything that you truly want?

The amazing lifestyle.
The handsome income.
The most enjoyable business.
The most incredible friendships.
The most loving relationship with self & a partner.

And the EVERYTHING else that you keep thinking about when you are meant to be sleeping or working, slaving away building someone else’s dream.

Only you know…
No-one can see your thoughts.

So you think it doesn’t matter?
But honey it does.

IT MATTERS.

Because YOU can hear your thoughts and feel your emotions.

And your energy speaks louder than words.

So WHAT IF…

You started doing something about those internal nudges that either show up as turmoil to give you feedback, or the ones that pray you to listen and water love and attention into them. Yes, I speak of your dreams.

What if all that it took was someone to give you a little nudge and guide you on the right path?

Let this be the nudge you have been waiting for.

My gorgeous soul sister Marissa & I are so excited to launch the #WhatifProject later this week.

Comment below if you want to be the first one to hear what we are up to.

Always an honour to be the one to give you an extra nudge…

️ Love you! ️